You Must-Have Conversations with an aging parent about a sensitive topic, such as health or future living situations, can be intimidating, but is often important. From preplanning to final wishes, knowing which words to use (and what to avoid) can ease both of your concerns and lead to a caring, construction discussion.
As you approach the conversation, be sure to direct your questions in a casual tone. It’s important to show your parent that you care, and ultimately want what’s best for them. By doing research beforehand, you can give them options and work together to choose the best solution.
From hearing to vision, maintaining good health is important as adults age. If you’re noticing signs that your parent’s health may be declining, it’s time to have a conversation.
2. Financial and Legal Planning
From legal matters to medical bills, it’s important to get a sense of whether your parent has the proper affairs in order.
As adults age, there’s a growing need to adapt their driving practices appropriately. Since older drivers are more fragile, their fatality rates are 17 times higher than those of 25 to 64 year olds, according to the American Automobile Association (AAA). With this statistic in mind, it’s important to have a conversation with your parents about safe driving.
While talking about preplanning is hard, it’s also an act of love for your family. Within the first 24 to 48 hours following a death, there are up to 125 decisions to make when planning a funeral. If needed information isn’t readily available, then it can add a lot of stress for family members at an already difficult time.